The greatest myth.

Who doesn’t dream of a balanced, harmonious life?

Definitely not me.

It sounds so perfect.

Harmony.

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Family.

Happy, healthy, caring, attentive, joyful.

Shared discoveries, events, experiences.

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Work.

Without sucking the life out of you.

Pure enjoyment.

A sense of fulfillment, purpose.

A stable income. High!

You need a lot for balance.

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Legacy and life's purpose.

Smart (and not) movies.

Exploration.

Free time.

Hobbies.

Friends.

Health.

Sports.

Travel.

Music.

Books.

Sleep.

Sex.
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Did I miss anything?

The Founder

What kind of balance doesn’t include all the important things?

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Let’s add more!

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And this is not even the best part.

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The juggler.

Juggling heavy clubs.

High up on a tightrope.

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Add:

• Rain
• Siberian frost
• A burning rope
• Hurricane winds
• Wild saber-toothed tigers

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It’s not always fun for everyone.

Is taking out the trash part of the balance or not?

What about the window the kids broke (luckily, they didn’t get hurt)?

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Life is full of pleasant and unpleasant surprises.

Anything can happen at any moment.

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Maybe the rich and famous have found balance?

One becomes a monk, another grinds 16 hours a day, and another seems to have lost their mind completely.

How about the trust-fund babies?

Not a chance.

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Everyone’s chasing this fully balanced life.

And me, of course. Why would I be any different?

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But.

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There is no such thing as balance.

It’s a myth.

Balance is a process, not a state.

It’s a constant dance:

• This is on fire.
• That’s broken.
• Something fell off.
• Over here, it’s dried up.

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And when you understand and accept that,

You discover the main secret.

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Life is constant change. There are no static systems.

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Even "dead" matter is constantly changing due to entropy.

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So if that’s the case, then obsessing over not being able to reach this balance is just wasting your energy and time on meaningless suffering.

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People always want more. There’s always something new to chase after.

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Spend time with family, but don’t lose your mind when you need to push hard at work...

And vice versa.

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Just live.

Live your life.

Solve problems.

Help when you can.

Love when you feel it.

Be happy when there’s a reason.

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It’s constant motion.

That’s. Just. How. It. Is.

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- Eugene